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Originally Posted by neflyte
*sigh* what continues to kill me is i'll never know if i'm truly over my ex. since there's no common sign or rulebook for it, i could potentially never be over her for my entire life.
i think what i'm going to do is stop looking for women. forget the dating sites, etc. if i chance upon someone in the future and we both mesh, excellent. if i remain single for the rest of my days, so be it. i still have family, friends, my career, my hobbies, et al.
frankly, i'm tired of people always telling me i'm not over my ex. i'm giving up.
thanks everyone for the insight, as always.  |
You're over her when YOU SAY you're over her. It really is as simple as that. But you can't say that yet, can you? Or if you do, people don't buy it, and you probably don't buy it yourself. So there's something you need to handle first, is all.
And it doesn't have to be hard work or take a long time. Getting resigned and throwing up your hands is to be expected, because you're getting a LOT of juice out of keeping this thing around.
Look, if she were sitting right there next to you, and you knew you could say ANYTHING to her, ANYTHING at all, what would you say?