Originally Posted by neflyte

*sigh* what continues to kill me is i'll never know if i'm truly over my ex. since there's no common sign or rulebook for it, i could potentially never be over her for my entire life.

i think what i'm going to do is stop looking for women. forget the dating sites, etc. if i chance upon someone in the future and we both mesh, excellent. if i remain single for the rest of my days, so be it. i still have family, friends, my career, my hobbies, et al.

frankly, i'm tired of people always telling me i'm not over my ex. i'm giving up.

thanks everyone for the insight, as always.