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thespian86 · 05-23-2009, 03:25 PM

I think it's healthy to be open and honest about your past experiences, no matter the subject. That is to say, if I couldn't talk about my life freely in a relationship I wouldn't want to be in it anymore.

But, I take issue with comparisons. And with lying to oneself. If you were bringing her up because you aren't over her, then stick to casual or no dating. If you were bringing her up as measure of what you look for, no one will take that well (ie: don't pigeon hole her; let her be a new adventure, not "starting over").

05-23-2009, 03:25 PM	#9 (permalink)
thespian86 change is hard. Location: the green room.	I think it's healthy to be open and honest about your past experiences, no matter the subject. That is to say, if I couldn't talk about my life freely in a relationship I wouldn't want to be in it anymore. But, I take issue with comparisons. And with lying to oneself. If you were bringing her up because you aren't over her, then stick to casual or no dating. If you were bringing her up as measure of what you look for, no one will take that well (ie: don't pigeon hole her; let her be a new adventure, not "starting over"). __________________ EX: Whats new? ME: I officially love coffee more then you now. EX: uh... ME: So, not much.