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I've had an ex who thought this was a pretty normal request. I don't think I can physically have sex every single day. So that didn't work. I have girl friends who are happy to have sex every day. Something sexual every day seems feasible except when one of the partners is ill. I don't know...I don't think I personally want to have sex every single day. A few times a week sounds good, if I'm in the right mood. Sometimes there are other things you want to do with your time. Sometimes you're in the wrong mood. More than a few times weekly I think would turn sex into an obligation. I hate obligations.
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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