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Originally Posted by inBOIL
Hell no. Talk to him about your concerns when you two aren't having sex (or about to have sex).
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+1. The Gospel according to St. Skafe and St. InBoil. Now and forever. Amen.
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Frank communication is absolutely key. Use the words you're afraid to say. Keep the discussion focused by using those famous "I feel" and "I think" statements. Take deep breaths, don't interrupt regardless of how tempting it may be, and stress the fact that you are inquiring not out of dissatisfaction, but that you wish to improve the relationship.
Also make sure the time and place allows for 100% attention. No bringing it up post coitus or while a Playstation 2 is running.