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I've had that feeling before and I was actually scared because sex was suppose to feel good, not dull. But then I realized the problem was because I was so uptight about everything, like how i looked naked, or how I am probably not pleasuring him as well as I could, or that as he is penetrating me I would make faces unintentionally that looked weird and would turn him off. Im not sure how long you and your other half have been together, but for me this happens when I am just not that comfortable with the guy yet....
One other thing you could do it if you two decide to do it that night, you shud think about it the ENTIRE day..and just keep re-running that pleasurable feeling of that first two minute or two in your head, and when you actually go ahead and do it, don't overthink anything, or if possible dun think at all =) Do watever that comes to your head first!
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It's like you slit my throat, watched me bleed to death, and asked my dead body why I was screaming in so much pain.
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