kacilinden

I met my current boyfriend online while he was deployed to Iraq. I hated talking on the phone, so we at first we communicated only through facebook (for about 6 months) and later to texting. In December, I agreed for him to drive and come see me, I backed out the day before. He told me if I wanted him to come see me, I would have to call him. So, on Christmas Day i called him and we talked on the phone everyday from then on. On January 10th, he drove to see me and that night we "became official". He lives in North Carolina, about 500 miles away. He drives down every weekend possible, which is at least every other weekend.

Now that you have the background information, I go to college at the second biggest party school in Georgia, it is my second year here. I have almost all guy friends. The girl friends I do have all have boyfriends that go here, so they are not around much. Anyways, my boyfriend has been married before and his ex-wife cheated on him with 20 guys while he was in iraq. He knows I won't cheat on him, and says he trusts me, but not other people, even though they are my friends. I tell him (basically ask permission) whenever I go anywhere, I tell him where I am, who i'm with, what i'm doing, I even call and text him the whole time, and told him i didnt mind at all if he called me whenever he wanted to. Anytime I want to go somewhere he tells me he doesn't like it but to go anyway, because he has to get over it. However, EVERY SINGLE TIME, we end in an argument, about how I'm out with other dudes and that's not right, I end up crying, and just going home early with a ruined night.It's far worse if he knows I'm drinking. He goes out almost every night drinking with his marine friends, and I don't mind at all. But "it's okay because he is with guy friends". i even told him I wouldnt mind if he hung out with girls because i trust him 100%.

I need tips on resolving this issue, not to hear that I need to leave him. We are getting married after his next deployment. PLEASE HELP!!!