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DC I completely agree with you. I was one of the ones who felt I "deserved" it. Many things in my life growing up were negative and made my life difficult and these things only fueled the fire under the "I must deserve this" mindset. I have since gotten over that though it took a long time.
I do not regret what has happened to me in my life I feel strong and independent and I know that everything in my past has shaped who I am now.
As for the comment the original poster made about some of the women not being able to get enough sex. For me it was a matter of finally feeling like I had that control back. If I was the one craving it and doing the pouncing I felt more in control.
As to the second AM poster, my heart goes out to you. *hug*
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Frivolity, at the edge of a Moral Swamp, hears Hymn-Singing in the Distance and dons the Galoshes of Remorse. ~Edward Gorey
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