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If one knows the SO has a sexual desire for others (or rather an other kind of BODY) it is fair and mature to let him/her have it. May be they can together set a list of 'first things first rule' if they want to develop the relationship and committment to the level of confidence. For instance a gf/wife can have sexual desire for women, or different body build types or even ethnicity...
I strongly beleive it should still be avoided with family or friends as there is a strong chance of emotions kicking in...
sometimes I think than sexual desire for others, a strong desire for variety or spice in sexual life, if two couples mingle.. It is interesting. But I think the individual couples have to be very matured and highly committed. such things can go well if the involved people have a strange combo of traits like { naughty silly slutty voyeur pervert nasty } and { trust adventerous generous confidence mutual-respect }. And if they are a totally different physical type, personality type and interests.
I personally have a fantasy my gf exploring girls. Other than that I had not thought or felt about other possibilities
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