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Originally Posted by ASU2003
I know many more people that have married the first person they have dated (both men & women) than who have played the field. I don't think they settled, they just found someone they are happy with and who treat them well.
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It's nice to hear they found someone they are happy with.
As I basically said in the ladies lounge, shopping for men is like shopping for curtains (I bought some recently).
http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/ladies-...ml#post2521271 It's okay to know what you prefer, and it's okay to know what you absolutely cannot live with. I do have deal breakers, but they are mostly about being kind. I don't want a man that is so moody that I am stressed every single time he walks into the room, wondering what is going to happen. I know from personal experience that makes life too stressful for me, and I am not happy. I absolutely love the company of an easy-going nice guy. You know, the ones that people say never get the girls because they are nice.
It's okay if they don't make every single point on your 'wish list' if you have one. The important point is if you love them the way they are, for who/what they are, and not feeling shortchanged.