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Originally Posted by Baraka_Guru
Actually, don't some people already blame cheating on genetics, or "our nature"?
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Yeah, I know a few. I can't stand 'em. I hate excuses.
You choose your lifestyle, and the consequences. If that means that you are genetically inclined towards/away a certain lifestyle, then live responsibly and honestly within those boundaries... and don't expect others to have the same boundaries that you do. In other words, if you're "naturally" a cheater, then you should probably only be in open relationships, and should avoid marriage and other long-term entanglements as a rule, etc.
But that doesn't mean that ALL of us are wired to be cheaters. Some of us really do love being "tied down" (gasp!). I see that as being the point of this article... yes, some people are not cut out for it, but that doesn't leave the door open for everyone to run through with that excuse.