You seem to feel pretty strongly for her, and I'm sure all our comments are reassuring one of your main feelings about this situation: she's not in a good place, and she needs a way out. You'll know better than we do the best way to help her out. If you think laying it out on the table will work, do it right away. If you think it might not, and a gradual plan would be more effective, take that path.
My first impulse is to tell her your feelings and describe her situation. That _should_ work, you just have to keep in mind she's currently affected by some degree of suffering, so it might not.
|