|
its an interesting threadjack - the whole Catholic thingy. Ive had two people, one was my ex, who mentioned at various times my Catholic upbringing and how they thought it had something to do with my sex. Its funny that I never asked them to expound on that. I assume they meant that I was rather quiet and submissive as a partner, often feeling somewhat clumsy and not too wild. Other times though it was like the bad, bad girl. Rather extreme at either end.
Last weekend, I had dinner with Houseboat and he mentioned that he is seeing a girl and casually mentioned that she was Catholic in the bedroom. I responded that I was Catholic, to which he said, "Yeah, but you apparently got over it." So, I guess one can overcome their religious upbringing.
Of course a lot of the action in the bedroom happens because of both people. I think having a fun, active partner in Tpop helped me expand my comfortable feelings. Plus, time seems to have a way of making me feel more comfortable in my body.
Just wait. It gets even better.
__________________
As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons...be cheerful; strive for happiness - Desiderata
|