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Originally Posted by Aladdin Sane
I wanted to make her cum with my penis. Maybe it's a guy thing. Maybe it was a misconception gained from watching to much porn.
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Hey, at least you're honest about why you had those thoughts. I must say, I had no problem orgasming from masturbation (wayyyy before I ever bought a vibe, using just my fingers alone), but when I started having sex, I felt immense pressure to cum from intercourse on its own. Fact is, it was never going to happen that way, no matter how hard we both tried... and it took me a long time to accept that. I think I'm still trying to figure out a way that I can cum that way (fantasizing has brought me a long way, in terms of helping me cum very quickly during oral, etc--maybe it could work for intercourse?)... but I guess in some way, I don't think it's going to happen.