little_tippler

I don't usually fantasize about other people when I'm having sex with someone, but I guess thats' mainly because I only have sex with someone if I'm actually into them, so I don't feel the need to rev myself up so to speak, I'm usually excited enough already!

That being said, I am not the most sexual person, for several reasons, and have no clue how to get a higher sex drive, though I'd like that. I guess if I found sex to feel better than it does for me, then I'd want to do it more often.

I'm not sure what you mean by having NO sex drive...? Throwing another question back at you!

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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.

Fernando Pessoa, 1918