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Originally Posted by mixedmedia
well, I think it's multi-faceted.
3. I'm in a relationship now in which my partner really pushes all of my buttons mentally which makes it very easy for me to get off. I'm usually halfway there by the time he's even got his pants off, lol. But it's taken me all of my adult life to find him.  |
I find this is HUGE for me. The one guy I did have an orgasm during intercourse with, it was the first (and only
) time that I'd been with him, but there had been tension and flirtation for several months before that. It wasn't just his physical appearance either that did it for me, although that certainly was there. It was how we connected mentally as well - we really understood and related to one another, had the same wry, sarcastic sense of humor, were interested in the same things. Basically, the entire package all came together with us.
I honestly think I could have had an orgasm just from kissing him. It was so anticipated, and everything else meshed so amazingly... It really is true that the mind can be the main erogenous zone.