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I have a different outlook, I guess, of the porn issue. My boyfriend and I look at it together, though I have made the distinction that he (shouldn't) look at it without me.
We all know how that goes.
But when we look at it, he's usually the one getting depressed and down on his self. He feels that his package isn't as big as the guys on these porn websites and it makes him feel inadequate since "those girls seem to be enjoying it."
I don't know, I can see the usefulness of the porn industry as a teaching tool and a creative outlet but I think it's damaging to anyone that views it.
As for your personal self-esteem problems, I completely understand. I weigh 30 lbs more now than I did when my bf and I met. My sex drive has gone down because of it, and I'm having a hard time getting my mind right even though I'm trying to fix the physical part.
Love yourself, and either he'll love you too, or you can (and will) find someone that will. Confidence is the sexiest thing a woman can put on in the morning. =)
I hope this helps, I'm new at this whole "advice" thing. =)
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