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Yea, I was of that mindset several years ago.
I stumbled across a collection on our computer. I went to work PISSED. I was ranting and raving about how I couldn't believe he had porn. We were married and he could have sex with me whenever he wanted. How dare he have porn on his computer?!?
I was told I was over-reacting. I was certain I wasn't. In my mind, it was cheating and I was completely right to feel the way I felt.
Now, looking back, I realize I completely over-reacted. As I said before, it had nothing to do with *me*. I don't know other people's reasonings, but I realized that it wasn't worth blowing up over since every guy I've known looks at porn. I dealt with my reactions and realized that even if I walked around naked all day with whipped cream and sex toys, he'd still look at porn.
This is just something that you'll have to work through. However, his answer is what I'd be more focused on than the fact that he's looking at porn. Why did he disclose the weight concern now after all these years? The porn may possibly be a distraction from a bigger issue that needs discussed.
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