Yeah, well initially all she said was for me not to expect it. So I obviously wanted to talk about it, and asked her why, etc and that's where she told me because place is so small, and that she's disgusted by the thought because so and so will be in the next room etc etc and if I'm not happy with it that I don't have to go. Unfortunately we're both as stubborn as each other.
I suppose it is still a communication problem, but I want to communicate to find compromise. Although even then, it's not the sort of thing you can compromise on, if it happens it happens, if it doesn't it doesn't. It's a massive privacy issue for her and I guess I'm more peeved that she's telling me to forget it already.
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Originally Posted by jewels
are those her exact words, or are those your interpretations of what she said?
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Well she didn't say don't expect it, she said "forget it". and the reasonings are her words, but can also add to that she's disgusted by the thought of sex with people sleeping in the next room. It's a privacy issue for her.