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Originally Posted by Manic_Skafe
Perhaps you haven't quite found anyone to hang out with yet because instead of seeing people as they actually are, you're far too busy figuring which category they belong to.
I'm assuming you've also categorized yourself in a similar manner. Seems you still have quite a bit more to learn about yourself.
I might not have had a "deep and meaningful" connection with everyone I've ever known but I have found that in some way, they've all taught me something. Learn to appreciate people for whom they are and you'll find that in some way or another - they will surprise you.
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Manic speaks the best advice.
Those "groups" you posted, many people fall in and out of those groups, ebbing and flowing with life as needed. You've spent far more time analyzing when you could just be doing.
I'd also state that what you've posted in this vein in the past and now is always so rigid, and structured. You don't have time for a social life because you've got this schedule. You can't make friends because of this highly organized process.
Maybe you need to take a step back and relax. Enjoy life. Life doesn't fit into these grand little categories that happen from 6pm-8pm M-F.
I'd also like to add, "no one likes you?" Maybe that's because you've not given people an opportunity to like you. Meaningful friendships and relationships take time. If you don't give them time, they don't grow and don't happen.
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Last edited by Cynthetiq; 02-21-2008 at 07:48 AM..
Reason: Automerged Doublepost
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