I don't find myself a particularly attractive person, but I do enjoy feeling pretty every once in a while. I find that those days are generally precluded by feeling healthy, successful, and confident in my abilities in something or another. For example, if I have been eating well, visiting the gym, doing well in classes, and having good conversations with someone who matters.. I tend to feel a lot more attractive. Usually my worst "self-worth" days come when I am sick; nothing makes me feel less attractive than being unhealthy.
Dressing up and making a little bit of extra effort for myself (or for a super attractive man who thinks I'm pretty) sometimes can make a huge difference if I'm feeling a little low. Also, hearing someone tell me I'm attractive and worthwhile both inside AND out is a big confidence boost. Even if he's just telling me what I already know, it's nice to hear it out loud.
