"Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't."
~Erica Jong
You're very right that dating is different than marriage. It also depends a lot on the history of the relationship. If things are going pretty well, and you hit a bump, well then it makes sense to address the bump. But if most of the ride has been bumpy, with only episodes of goodness, it's likely to be something beyond repair and unlikely to get better with more "work".
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