One more thought -- try indirect stimulation instead of direct. Many women are extremely sensitive and will respond better to "nearby" sensations, or perhaps a slighter touch until things are well-lubricated.
Men forget that we're not all the same, and women think they should have the same experiences they've heard about. It's just not so. Experiment until you find what works for you.
You might find this little excerpt from the
Hite Report interesting:
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I use the tips of my fingers for actual stimulation, but it's better to start with patting motions or light rubbing motions over the general area. As excitement increases I began stroking above the clitoris and finally reached a climax with a rapid, jerky circular motion over the clitoral hood. Usually my legs are apart, and occasionally I also stimulate my nipples with the other hand.
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