the only thing I would have to add to this is: don't do the same thing continously.. Switch things up, going back to things more often if it gets a better reaction... if she really wants something, then they will sometimes ask for it..
the worst thing I can think of one doing is the same old motions to the point where it becomes numb... hopefully your girly doesn't let you get that far
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