Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community - View Single Post

soma · 11-18-2007, 09:29 PM

So the date with my old flame went well and she wants to continue seeing me.
Today, I also just made plans with this other girl to do something on saturday.
edit: Actually, the date with this old flame was pretty horrible. Or at least that's what I thought. So after the bad date, I called this other girl, made plans with her for next saturday thinking nothing more would happen with this old flame of mine. Then today, I find out that my old flame actually enjoyed herself and wants to continue seeing me.
This seems great, but now I feel like an incredible douche.

Really. I don't want to do anything deceptive and for sure don't want to get a reputation for being a player, because I'm far from it. My ex was the first and only person I've ever dated. This old flame of mine is someone that had a crush on me, but we never dated.

How do I proceed with these two girls without hurting anyone?

11-18-2007, 09:29 PM	#18 (permalink)
soma Addict Location: USA	So the date with my old flame went well and she wants to continue seeing me. Today, I also just made plans with this other girl to do something on saturday. edit: Actually, the date with this old flame was pretty horrible. Or at least that's what I thought. So after the bad date, I called this other girl, made plans with her for next saturday thinking nothing more would happen with this old flame of mine. Then today, I find out that my old flame actually enjoyed herself and wants to continue seeing me. This seems great, but now I feel like an incredible douche. Really. I don't want to do anything deceptive and for sure don't want to get a reputation for being a player, because I'm far from it. My ex was the first and only person I've ever dated. This old flame of mine is someone that had a crush on me, but we never dated. How do I proceed with these two girls without hurting anyone? __________________ Having Girl Problems? Last edited by soma; 11-18-2007 at 09:32 PM..