Hyacinthe

From what I can see Soma you've met a new girl and are reconnecting with an old flame, you don't really know what is going on with the flames life or anything about this new girl.

First few dates are therefore 'getting to know you' dates, you learn stuff about the girls and whether either of them are interested in an exclusive relationship as well as if you're willing for a monogamous relationship with either of them.

There's nothing wrong with that - least I don't think so. For all you know this new girl could spend her spare time pulling the wings off butterflies or torturing kittens - probably not a good idea to decide to be exclusive with her until you know if she's mentally stable.

I like Ustwo's idea if they ask just say "nothing serious" it's truthful - yes you're seeing other people, no you're not in a currently exclusive relationship. If you told either of the girls that you were seeing her and her alone that to me would be cheating - as it is well if you're single it's hard to cheat Mrs palm and her five daughters aren't really the jealous type after all.

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