telekinetic

Be careful how you try to project your morality as the social norm, and look down your nose at more liberal viewpoints. It is not an endearing trait.


Since you asked, you are wrong. Just because casually dating is outside the realm of your personal experience doesn't make it fair game for you acting holier-than-thou about it.

Are you saying that single people shouldn't (or can't?) date, without intent to enter into a serious relationship? I'm not single, but when I was, I definitely enjoyed dating (and being casually physically involved with the people I was dating, to varying levels, as they were comfortable), and didn't have any thought to 'exclusivity'.

I had one friend that I spent the night with fairly regularly, a couple I could call if I wanted to catch a movie or go to a comedy show, one who would come over and work on my car with me....I went out with a stripper whenever she was on the rocks with her boyfriend (or broken up) and wanted company, and I still went out to parties and clubs (with varying degrees of success at getting dates and phone numbers).

The most fun I had while I was single was casually dating two girls at once who were best friends with eachother, and all three of us vacationing to Rocky Point with a few other people for spring break--definitely had one of the best times of my life...due to a room shortage we 'had' to share a double bed between the three of us...I called middle!

We all three eventually moved on with no hard feelings, as more serious relationships came along, as we never had any intent to pursue anything serious with eachother. I actually had very mixed feelings about ending that period of my life...Personally, I am more happy being married, at the stage of my life I am in, but if you aren't ready to be married, or haven't found "the one"....I'd say casual dating is miles better than being in a dead-end serious relationship with someone you don't want to marry....definitey more fun

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