Whatever you do, do not fall into the trap of getting with her, thinking "if only this were fixed, it'd be perfect".
She needs to speak with someone who specializes in her type of self-image issues, and the eating/harm disorders that go along with it. Losing the weight won't fix her; her problems are not just on the surface.
Encourage her to recognize she has a problem with cutting and having an eating disorder, and that she should seek professional counseling for it.
And yes, that's about all you can do. You can read some books to better familiarize yourself, but you can't treat her. Be supportive, but don't just sit and validate her. She thinks she's trying to get healthy- she's not, she's doing something very [u]un[/i]healthy. She's doing unhealthy things to achieve what she thinks will be better health (aka skinnier).
Also, as was brought up, don't confuse the cutting with suicidal thought or action.
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