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Seer666 · 10-25-2007, 12:29 AM

Interesting topic. Well, let's see here.
I've been the one cheated on. The betrayal is the worst feeling in the world.
I've been the one cheated with. I can't say, in all honesty, it left me feeling bad about myself. In my defense, most of the times that has happened, I didn't find out until well after the fact. A few times I knew and didn't care, once I went after simply because I really didn't like the guy she was with and wanted to take something from him. That was when I was 16 though, so I don't really count it. On the times I have been cheated on, only once did I hold the guy in any blame, and that was because he was supposed to have been my friend. The others, well, they didn't know me, and they owe me no loyalty. She did, so the blame is solely on her. A cheater will cheat. So with who doesn't matter. Unless I know them. My view on it is not my relationship, not my problem. Unless they are dating a friend, and then they are off limits. Unless I've been given permission. Yes, that has happened.

I will say however, I applaud your stance. In this, you are a better man then I.

10-25-2007, 12:29 AM	#45 (permalink)
Seer666 Oh dear God he breeded Location: Arizona	Interesting topic. Well, let's see here. I've been the one cheated on. The betrayal is the worst feeling in the world. I've been the one cheated with. I can't say, in all honesty, it left me feeling bad about myself. In my defense, most of the times that has happened, I didn't find out until well after the fact. A few times I knew and didn't care, once I went after simply because I really didn't like the guy she was with and wanted to take something from him. That was when I was 16 though, so I don't really count it. On the times I have been cheated on, only once did I hold the guy in any blame, and that was because he was supposed to have been my friend. The others, well, they didn't know me, and they owe me no loyalty. She did, so the blame is solely on her. A cheater will cheat. So with who doesn't matter. Unless I know them. My view on it is not my relationship, not my problem. Unless they are dating a friend, and then they are off limits. Unless I've been given permission. Yes, that has happened. I will say however, I applaud your stance. In this, you are a better man then I. __________________ Bad spellers of the world untie!!! I am the one you warned me of I seem to have misplaced the bullet with your name on it, but I have a whole box addressed to occupant. Last edited by Seer666; 10-25-2007 at 12:32 AM..