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Lets face it, physical attraction is probably the most important factor in initiating relationships, and if someone isn't physically attracted to you, then regardless of their perceptions of your culture or personality, it's not going to work out. Trying to 'convince' attraction is an exercise in futility. I have the opposite problem, white people can be scarce around here and I'm generally only attracted to white girls, I don't think I'm a racist, I don't think any less of them as people, I just don't want to have a sexual relationship with them. So to some extent it's going to be difficult and there just isn't much you can do about it. Such is life. On the upside, you can be assured that somewhere out there in Virginia are some girls who will be particularly attracted to you; you just have to find them. Just like any relationship, once you've figured out the physical attraction, then you move on to personality and that's where you can do your work, but maybe not much you can do in the beginning.
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