| perhaps this would be better content for a separate thread on the correlation between abortion and depression?  
 for the op - just be supportive of her.  i think the most important thing, as others have said, is that she knows she's not alone in this.  you're both going to be going through a lot of stress, so take care of yourselves as much as you can.  good luck.
 
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