Lesson learned to all: Never underestimate the attraction power of another man, or their "threat" level, no matter how dorky/nerdy/weird YOU may think he is.
The major reason for this? When you shrug off the advances of another guy because you believe your chick is out of his league, he's a loser, she'd never like his type, etc... you are already taking your girl for granted in your head, and your actions towards her, and your relationship, will follow suit.
The worst thing you can do is take someone for granted. I think most people have a relationship where that happens, at some point in their lives... and things are either strengthened for it, or everything falls apart.
This is not to say I'm holding you responsible- not at all. She cheated, and you lost your girlfriend to another guy. Been there, it sucked... though as far as I know, she didn't actually cheat on me physically, she'd been talking to a guy for about 2 weeks, with the intention of leaving me, before actually doing so.
I have to repeat what I've said many times before, but I think really gets across the point for "don't look back" break-ups... move along, there's nothing more to see here.
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Originally Posted by tecoyah
Take what you have learned, and apply it to the next relationship, this one is over.
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