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Tilted Cat Head
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Location: Manhattan, NY
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Originally Posted by analog
You're not cheating. You're not the one in the relationship. In all fairness, you are not to blame or culpable in sharing blame with a cheater. It's not your fault that she's cheating.
However....
That doesn't mean that what you're doing doesn't make you a dick, or possibly even an asshole. That's not a dig, it's just an honest appraisal of the situation.
As far as morals go, that's a personal decision. Consider how you'll feel about it when it's all over.
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exactly.
and think of the long term discussions of how you'll be reminded of this if your relationship does stay on for years to come. People ask how you met, you'll ALWAYS know in the back of your mind that your earliest days together you were the dick or the asshole, take your pick.
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