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I was engaged to my daughters father.
because we had already "slipped up" and had my daughter, I wouldn't let him touch me again until we were married. he agreed to this. Of course, what i didn't know at the time was he had no problem with it because he was meeting up every couple days to "get some" with a friend of mine.
did i deserve to be cheated on? I don't think so - although some do.
who was i FURIOUS with when I found out? - HIM - not her.
she was a complete slut and its something I would expect from her. She has/had complete disregard for the status of other peoples relationships. I knew this and was her friend anyway. HE was the one that was in a committed relationship and in the midst of planning a large wedding that HE wanted ( I wanted to elope)
I will report however, that I broke up with him, and he ended up marrying her, and Karma pays them back in spades as one then the other involves themselves in extramarital affairs.
Its not that i think you are doing nothing wrong. Just felt the need to say that you should do as you like, but it WILL come back around to you in the end.
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