I dont know, I dont expect anyone to justify it. In my own moral vision it is wrong, but not as wrong as some things. I own up to being selfish. I dont know that I necessarily want to be in a serious relationship with the person in any event.
I know it is wrong, I am just asking is it AS wrong as being the one with the partner. I am not breaking a commitment I have made to anyone. I may be causing him harm, he may or may not deserve it.
I dont know for sure that the relationship will end, she might really not be into him, but she is with him yet, so perhaps she is just telling me what I want to hear, or perhaps we are just using each other in these ways.
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"Do not tell lies, and do not do what you hate,
for all things are plain in the sight of Heaven. For nothing
hidden will not become manifest, and nothing covered will remain
without being uncovered."
The Gospel of Thomas
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