Don't take this the wrong way Strange, but it sounds like you only posted this thread to get people to justify what you're doing. You want us to pat you on the back and saying, "it's okay, you're not causing any harm" just so you can feel better about it. The truth is, unless he knows in advance and is okay with it, you're trying to damage a relationship for your own gain, and it sounds like you know you're not comfortable with it, but want it bad enough that you need to find a way to be okay with it.
And if the relationship is about to end anyway, why not just wait it out?
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