Bearface-
Yeah, the clit can become over sensitive after a certain period of stimulation. I had that problem a lot, too, when my husband first started going down on me (before were married)... I mean, hell, 30-40 minutes of stimulation is a LOT! And I had masturbated and orgasmed by myself, before... but it still took a good 5 months before I finally came with a partner.
But it may help for her to explore her own body as well, even without you... just so she knows what it feels like, and to be comfortable with herself (which helps to relax with you, which increases chances of orgasm). How can she tell you how to help her come, if she hasn't done it herself, I ask?
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