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Originally Posted by gsta
Agree completely.
Thanks for the advice.
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You know it's true. Everyone does. But it takes an unreal amount of mind over penis to man up and act on it. I wish I could slap my 20 (and 21, and 22) year old self silly and drive that lesson into him.
The thing that I never saw when I was in the middle of it is that not only is it not fair to you, it's not fair to her to be with someone who spies on her. It isn't fair to her because the damage is already done, it's not something she can undo, and there isn't anything she can do to erase it. The sooner you end it, the sooner she can get a fresh start.