I get the opposite lecture...
My husband is 15 years younger than his next-older brother. Both of his older brothers waited until their mid-thirties to get married and have children, and as a result of this "waiting", they have a lot of money saved up. A lot of money. As in, my brother-in-law's unborn child has her college AND law school paid for already, should she choose to go.
As a result of his uber-youth (in comparison to his bros), my husband and I constantly get the, "You guys aren't going to have kids yet, right?" lecture from everyone in his family. I'm starting to wonder if they're loathe for my demon spawn to become part of the family or something.
They were angry with us when we moved in together, when we got married (Vegas FTW!), and I'm absolutely positive that if/when I ever call my mother in law to tell her I am pregnant, her first words will not be joyous, but instead, tearful.
It's a shitty situation, and it would be really nice if people would butt out about others' life timelines. But they won't, so you just have to deal, I guess.
