Grandparents want to be part of the joy. They want to see the grandchildren. Really when they say YOU aren't getting any younger it is really about them not getting any younger.
I do have some regret in the choice that I have made in not having children that if we were to change our minds in the future, it may be too late to meet the grandparents.
But I don't do things because of what other people think, I do however let them know clearly my intentions as best as I can express them at the time.
My parents are expecting for us to not have any children. They aren't so okay with that, but at the same time respect our decision.
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I don't care if you are black, white, purple, green, Chinese, Japanese, Korean, hippie, cop, bum, admin, user, English, Irish, French, Catholic, Protestant, Jewish, Buddhist, Muslim, indian, cowboy, tall, short, fat, skinny, emo, punk, mod, rocker, straight, gay, lesbian, jock, nerd, geek, Democrat, Republican, Libertarian, Independent, driver, pedestrian, or bicyclist, either you're an asshole or you're not.
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