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Old 07-11-2007, 07:21 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by katyg
Now I am not the sort of woman who would ever accept this sort of behaviour as normal and I sought counselling for my partner and his problems - rather than judge him I wanted to help.
If you were his therapist, that'd be okay. If you're his gf, it's not.

This is a person who is unable to channel and control his rage, and as a consequence, you are put in extreme danger. You being in a relationship with him already has you in a role, and if you were to try and act as a therapist you would be assuming dual roles and this would have detrimental effects on him and you.
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