Xerxys

You might possibly want to kill me for reviving this but I think I get the drift, Ron, tell me if I'm wrong. When a man wants to settle the argument, women say he just wants to dictate the terms, but often the woman doesnt realise that the man has included various ways to resolve the conflict. We do consider sacrifice to be a big part of life. Becuase the man has reached 'A LOGICAL' conclusion first, the woman sets out to discredit him as incompetent, hence the insults.

Men (WE) dont like being abused by the people we love. Admonished we can stand, not abused. We feel betrayed, that you could use our own weaknesses against us, not neccesarily weakness, even a cheap shot hurts deeply. The lance in the chest might stand for a severe betrayal that can be acheived by only one so close to you. I think its about time we just realise that some times, women just like arguing because they are bored or are having a bad day, not neccesarily a good reason.