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Yes, this is absolutely a decision that you have to do what it takes to feel comfortable with. And now that you recognize what you are going through, what he is putting you through, and you are taking action to get what you want--that's wonderful! That's strength!
Everyone has faults and problems--as long as people are willing to put in significant effort to work with it, *that's* the key to love, I think. To life in general, maybe.
I'd recommend:
1) Journaling,
2) Setting a date on the calaendar to evaluate progress, and
3) Please do seriously consider couple's counseling. You may think it's not needed at this stage, but please believe me when I tell you, often by the time you think it's time, a terrible lot of damage has been done. Don't wait, ok?
Good Luck to you and yours!
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"Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath.
At night, the ice weasels come." -
Matt Groening
My goal? To fulfill my potential.
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