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Originally Posted by Cynthetiq
In Charlatan's case I'm going to say being married or engaged to someone is vastly different.
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I can agree that marriage, or long term commitment does make a difference... but not always.
That said, before we were married (the first time) we used to spend four months of the year apart when she would go home for the summer months and I would stay at school. She also moved to the UK for an additional four months one year.
We spent a lot of time apart. The methods we used to cope then serve us well now (full disclosure: when she went to the UK we almost broke up when she got back due to infidelities on both our parts. In the end, we just wanted to be together more than not. Our 14th wedding anniversary is next week).