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Originally Posted by analog
I think this is it right here. I don't think you're really all that concerned about him thinking his sister is hot, I think you're more concerned with how jealous you are that you're not with him and you think he finds his own sister hotter than you.
I mean really, every post here is about how attractive she is and how you think you fall short in comparison. Now it's true that it's bizarre, but I think the main extent of your issue here is because you are jealous of the attention he gives his sister.
Secondarily- he's your ex... why do you care? If it bothers you, move on. If it doesn't, then maybe see what's up with your lingering feelings. But still, I think you linger because you feel like you're competing with his sister and you're bummed because you think you're losing.
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i have no idea if she's hot or not, i've not met her so i just assume she is. and it would be fine with me if he did think his sister is hotter than me, it's that fact that he wants to act on it that disturbs me. they were brought up together as a close family, i couldn't imagine feeling that way about my brother (if i had one). he has other sisters but he's not interested in them the way he is with his younger one.
i didn't know anything about his feelings towards his sister until last night, and it shocked me. i didn't know how to feel. i'm not the competitive type at all so it's not about me losing some competition. he treated me like shit and i always forgave him. i'm bummed out with the way he's treated me and finding this new information is going to be vital for me if i am to get over him, i suppose.
could it just be a phase he's going through? or is it like willravel said and that's it just an itch to scratch?