This is so terribly sad...but if it's what you gotta do, then it's what you gotta do.
personally, i feel that if healer and i, ever had to separate, i would not be able to see him during that time. granted, we aren't married, so i probably am not the best person to be giving advice.
but isn't the whole point of separation so that you can miss what you had and realise that you can't do without it?
but then again, you're married...but also, you got married for a reason and you just have to find that reason within yourselves and each other. and once you've done that, i suppose it's plain sailing from then on...
i just think it's really sad that two people who "found each other" are separating...but my thoughts and prayers are with both of you.
good luck with the counseling and i hope you guys are back together real soon.
*hopeless romantic*...
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