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But I'll tell you one thing, I need an o0rgasm every now and then, otherwise I just start to doubt everything.
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Yup! The rose colored glasses are much easier to put on when I'm getting some. And the quality makes a difference. A huge difference.
The wife has some medical/pain issues that are affecting our sex life. She is trying, but between that and the common "men want it too much, women don't need it as often." thing, it's gone downhill as far as quality goes. Don't get me wrong, to a starving man, a saltine cracker looks mighty good, but feed him a couple hundred saltines, he'll start asking for sandwiches.
In my opinion, a man has an instinctual need to feel virile and desired sexually. It's simply the way we are wired, and I don't understand why that gets questioned.
I've tried many times, in many different ways, to tell her that what she's doing is helping, but I still need a good old sweaty, back-arching, holy-shit-what-was that kind of fucking now and then. I'm holding out hope that her back surgery will help with that once it heals up.