I'm a big fan of intimacy and agree with the posts thus far that if it isn't there it just isn't a healthy relationship. I've been with men where the sex was great but emotionally they were cold and unfeeling. I think your body reacts to that too, you end up feeling like crap even if you've had multiple orgasms.
Sex without intimacy is for pickups, not lovers.
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