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Originally Posted by yotta
I don't know. I think she's telling the truth about it being a dealbreaker for her.
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And there it is then. She has her personal comfort zones, just like everyone else here. Just because she doesn't want to adopt or use a sperm donor doesn't make her a bad person. It may make her shallow, and it may make her selfish (in my opinion, both), but not necessarily a bad person. I don't see anything wrong with telling that to a significant other early in the relationship, but I do when you've put 3 years in.
To quote Dan Savage - DTMFA. You deserve better. She's made that abundantly clear.