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Originally Posted by yotta
I'm quite sure that she's being honest about her reason. She said she'd stay with me if there was a way to ensure non-autistic children, or if she was sterile. I think this is monumentally cruel and fucked up. It's something I have no way to ever change. Totally powerless. If she really loves me it shouldn't matter. I feel dehumanized.
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So she's saying if SHE were unable to have kids, that would be fine with her and she'd stay with you, but if YOU are the one she believes shouldn't have children... that's not ok?
You're right, that's fucked up. Also, it doesn't sound like it's the only issue... it's like when couples stop having sex, and they're wondering why the sex has decreased... the effect you feel is not always directly linked to the cause. In other words, she may be having other issues she's unwilling to discuss with you, and is instead looking for an out. Saying it would be fine if she were sterile is a nonsense statement, since she isn't.